Uninvited Guests

Why are issues like divorce, infidelity, rebellion, and discord so prevalent in our homes today? In this message, Chip Ingram reveals a startling truth: Satan is actively at work to destroy the sacred institutions of marriage and the family. Learn how to protect your most cherished relationships from the subtle lies that have destroyed others, so you can be the parent and spouse God has called you to be.

Every couple will tell you that there are days when you are not on the same page with your mate, or someone says something rude or insensitive. And in those vulnerable moments when you feel hurt or disconnected, you start to hear a subtle whisper: “You are falling out of love” or “You made a mistake marrying that person.” In this message, Chip calls out these deceitful thoughts and reveals how they undermine your relationship. Hear what you can do to safeguard your minds and prioritize reconciliation when conflict arises.

For decades, society has viewed a couple living together as a necessary step for any serious relationship — almost like a down payment for marriage. How else are two people able to demonstrate they are committed to one another or that they are compatible on a sexual, emotional, and mental level? In this message, Chip Ingram tackles the controversial topic of cohabitation. Learn what popular research and God’s Word say on the topic, and why the institution of marriage is worth preserving.

When you and your colleagues approach a big assignment, it is perfectly reasonable to split the work up evenly, so everyone has their fair share to do. But can this same principle also apply to marriages? In this message, Chip Ingram explains why a 50/50 type of agreement between spouses does not work. Discover the level of commitment the Bible calls husbands and wives to, and what it looks like to adore your mate through service.

Do you know a friend whose marriage is failing, and they have said, “This should not be this hard. I wonder if it is worth all of this heartache.” In this message, Chip Ingram exposes the false narrative that couples have believed about hardships and marriage. Discover the powerful truths that will encourage you and your spouse to confront challenging times together, rather than allow them to drive a wedge between you.

Life in the typical household today can feel a bit overwhelming. There is always laundry to do, bills to pay, meals to prepare, and busy schedules to juggle; so how do you decide who handles each responsibility? In this message, Chip provides some clarity and insight into this critical issue. Join us to uncover what the Bible says about the roles of husbands and wives in the family–the answer may surprise you!

Have you ever made an innocent comment to your spouse, only to have them snap or blow up at you? And you are left wondering, “What just happened? Why did they respond that way?” Well, in this message, Chip explores the underlying insecurities and lies that can spark these responses. Join us to get a glimpse into the heart and mind of your mate, so you can better understand, love, and appreciate who they are.

Marriage is a sacred institution established by God back in the Garden of Eden. Since then, Satan has been on a mission to destroy that relationship, through powerful lies and half-truths that pervert and sabotage what God intended. In this message, Chip unpacks the fundamental truths of a God-honoring marriage that thwart Satan’s schemes. By embracing these scriptural principles, you can strengthen the bond with your mate and deepen your connection with your Creator.

One of the most captivating yet misleading phrases throughout literature is: And they lived happily ever after. While it is entirely natural to desire a successful relationship, the real danger lies in the misbelief that marrying the right person will guarantee a worry-free relationship. In this message, Chip confronts this prevalent myth about marriage and invites us to consider what it takes to be fully committed to someone for a lifetime.

What if the secret to a thriving marriage is not rooted in big, grand gestures of affection, but in daily, intentional decisions to love your mate? In this message, Chip dives deeper into this subject by challenging husbands and wives to learn each other’s love language. He stresses that by becoming students of our mates, we uncover how to specifically and sacrificially cherish our spouse, in the ways they genuinely want to be loved.